Showing posts with label obituary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label obituary. Show all posts

Saturday, April 3, 2010

RIP David Mills aka Undercover Black Man

 David Mills in 1995. Photo: Rhonda Birndorf/Associated Press.

It's been a brutal week here in my world. I'm a freelancer and parted ways with a client. There was a brutal rainstorm here in the NYC area. I'm on the top floor and, yep, you guessed it, the roof sprung a leak...directly on my bed. Also, my laptop got infected with a Trojan horse virus. Good for me that I knew immediately that something was wrong, basically went into safe mode and stopped using it. An IT professional referred me to a great place to get it repaired. They knew what was going on and told me to bring it right in. I took it in Thursday morning and I picked it up a day later. Note that I work from my computer, so I had to scramble and get work done at the public library. I did it, but yeah...I had to hustle and do it fast because you get, at max an hour. (Good I've got both a Manhattan and a Brooklyn library card. I did hit libraries in both boroughs on Thursday.)

All of that means one thing, beyond major news stories, I've not been paying much attention to the world around me. This week, Twitter started blowing up overtime that David Mills had collapsed and died this past Tuesday while working on Treme a new HBO series in New Orleans. I was MIA on Twitter this week, so it didn't catch up to me until today.  Thanks to a fellow forum member who reads my blog and his that let me know that he'd passed. She'd noticed that he linked to me in his Background vocals (ladies) section. He linked to me awhile back a couple of years ago. I'm sure as a result of some of my more spirited posts on race. The company he put me in is great and is humbling.

David was great too. I knew he was the writer of the popular Undercover Black Man blog, but what I didn't know was that he was a powerhouse writer in many other respects too. David, who grew up and made Washington, DC home, was a journalist, and he created, collaborated and wrote on some great TV shows like The Corner, Kingpin, and the Wire.  In fact, he died while on location working on an HBO series called Treme. Considering spent almost nine years abroad, I only heard about these shows. I didn't know all this about him, and it's even more humbling because he found my blog and appreciated what I had to say.  I know I definitely related to and appreciated his writing too.

What's interesting about David's blog is there was never a picture of him.  I'm someone who is clearly and easily identified as black.  I figured because of the name of his blog he was probably a black man with a light complexion because my mother and both of my grandmothers were light.  That's something that non-blacks tend not to get the nuances of.  That you don't have to have obvious sub-Saharan African features to be or identify as black.  Especially in the USA, there are other results of racial discrimination: mostly that relationships both consensual and those that aren't produce off-spring.  My family has a huge range of hues and colors. Now that interracial relationships are legal, now people can freely date and marry who they want. That history of legitimate and illegitimate shows a lot in black families and almost not at all in white families because the shunned offspring never was never accepted and probably most didn't know he or she existed. I know from the stories my mom told me of the struggles you have when you're black but you're almost always seen as something else.  I'm sure David dealt with this too.

David was a powerful creator and I'm glad that he made a significant impact before he left this world.

RIP David.  My condolences to your family, friends and fans.

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Monday, October 19, 2009

RIP, my sweetheart

Kitty, my well-traveled and sweet cat, died this morning.  I woke up and she wasn't at the foot of the bed, but sometimes she's sleeping on a pillow on the living room floor.  She wasn't there either.  I saw her sitting on the floor in the living room and thought all was okay.  It wasn't.  She walked to my bedroom door and fell on her side.  I guess she'd gone to the living room to eat, sleep or visit one of her litter boxes: one close to the bedroom door and the other closer in the corner of the living room. She had two because 19 years for a cat is equal to 92 human years, I was making her senior years easy.

I scooped her up right away and then I started freaking out.  However, Kitty could tell when I was upset.  I pulled it together, put her on her pillow and started looking up emergency vet centers. (Remember, I just moved here in August.)  I chose the Animal Medical Center on 62nd St and York Ave.

She got a bit spirited this morning. She realized she was unable to get from point A to point B and that made her really upset. When she started getting really upset, I put her in her travel bag. She's used to it. It is soft, and she knows I'm not far away when she's in it. It's a long story but I realized when I moved to Korea in 2000 that, for her, home was where I was (by 2000 we'd be together for 10 years). I'd left her in San Francisco because I thought she'd be more comfortable there. Then got reports she was terrorizing the girl subleasing my room (ooops).  I made arrangements to get her immediately and never left her anywhere after that.

Somewhere between leaving my apartment and getting to the vet this morning she died. I checked on her a few times en route and it didn't look like she was breathing. I was just hoping that maybe her breathing was shallow and a magic shot would make her okay again. 

19 years is a long and full life for a cat.

People are telling me she was lucky to have me. However, I was incredibly lucky to have her too.

She was with me through a lot. She was there when:
  • I lost my parents 5-weeks apart from each other (she was a mere tot - around 4 years old then)
  • I moved to San Francisco for law school (just a few months later)
  • I moved to Korea and living there for 8 years with me (I moved in August 2000; I came back to get her in December 2000.)
She was:
  • a trooper of a traveler when we moved back (March 2009)
  • a trooper of a traveler from San Francisco to Philadelphia (May 2009) - sat on my lap in the airport and let me pet and feed her (what cat does that?)
  • a trooper of a traveler from Philadelphia to Manhattan (August 2009)
Between the two of us, I was the lucky one.

Hanging out with me after I fell face first on Memorial Day weekend due to low blood sugar (common for diabetics - the low blood sugar, not the head impact) and went to the ER for stitches.

RIP my sweetheart.  Thanks for putting up with me.

She ALWAYS walked on or sat on my laptop (I think I paid it way too much attention for her liking.)

More Kitty laptop hate ;-)


To my feline baby:
Barbra Streisand - Evergreen Love Theme Froma S Mp3

(of course, the code isn't fixed and there is no way I'm doing it today - the "read more" link doesn't work.)

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Tuesday, September 29, 2009

William Safire's Rules for Writers

This is the best way for me to give a nod to William Safire. Safire was a conservative columnist and speechwriter. He was also the writer of the On Language column in the New York Times.

I didn't agree with his political views. For me, he's an example of how someone can be skilled with one thing but not be skilled with something else.

His skills with the English language were incredible. I only hope to one day come close. I make mistakes more than I want to admit. It's really humbling to find something that I didn't proofread carefully and then have to change it.

To that end, RIP William Safire.

Here are his Rules for Writers:

Remember to never split an infinitive.

The passive voice should never be used.

Do not put statements in the negative form.

Verbs have to agree with their subjects.

Proof read carefully to see if you words out.

If you reread your work, you can find on rereading a great deal of repetition can be avoided by rereading and editing.

A writer must not shift your point of view.

And don't start a sentence with a conjunction.

(Remember, too, a preposition is a terrible word to end a sentence with.)

Don't overuse exclamation marks!!

Place pronouns as close as possible, especially in long sentences, as of 10 or more words, to their antecedents.

Writing carefully, dangling participles must be avoided.

If any word is improper at the end of a sentence, a linking verb is.

Take the bull by the hand and avoid mixing metaphors.

Avoid trendy locutions that sound flaky. Everyone should be careful to use a singular pronoun with singular nouns in their writing.

Always pick on the correct idiom.

The adverb always follows the verb.

Last but not least, avoid cliches like the plague; seek viable alternatives.

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Thursday, June 25, 2009

Dear Michael - RIP

Michael Jackson: August 29, 1958 – June 25, 2009


I'll always remember him best as a child because he was just a few years older than me.

Weird, as I just had a Six Feet Under marathon going the other day.

Tears have been shed, big time this week because we lost Farrah today too. What a horrible day.

For those like me who are in transit or in transition and are away from your record collections, check out this mix on Brooklyn's DJ Soul's blog mixed by DJ Jaycee: Remember MJ (part 1).

Here are two more mixes that DJ Jaycee made. These were played on his radio show on Sunday, June, 28th:
Oh, here is another mix - more old skool than not: Best of MJ by DJ M.O.S.

Both of the originals ones were done way before MJ died. For some reason, that makes them easier to listen to. Basically, they're shows of respect for his music while he was here rather than a desperate attempt to capitalize on this sad, sad tragedy. The other two by DJ Jaycee were tributes that were done after MJ passed, but my community needs to remember the range of MJ's work. Getting new mixes from someone who was smart enough to recongize MJ while he was living is great.

Update - July 9, 2009 @ 9:12pm

I didn't want to start a new post. But here is a .pdf version of MJ's obituary for the Staples Center memorial service. Thanks to the Chicago Defender for the link: Poignant service says goodbye to M.J., the manMichael Jackson Obituary

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Tuesday, June 24, 2008

George Carlin, RIP

When I read that George Carlin had passed away this morning I was sad.

Why? Because he was a unique comic and I grew up sneaking listens to him when I wasn't supposed to.

Carlin, along with other comics like Redd Foxx, Richard Pryor and Andy Kaufman and shows like Saturday Night Live, Fridays and SCTV helped shape what is my very weird sense of humor and horrible propensity to swear like a sailor (and to a certain not-so-gentle man who judged me for that, f**k you...)

Plus, his Seven Words You Can Never Say on Television is simply classic comedy. You can't not laugh and if you don't laugh you're way too uptight for my tastes.

Here it is on YouTube and, if you can't figure out there is a lot of swearing, then you're an idiot.

The Intro:



The Rest:



Here is another one on language:



"...smug, greedy, well-fed white people..."

Hahahahaha ...great stuff.

I was going to write in more detail, but that John f**king Mayer guy beat me to it. However, what he has to say is pretty good, so I'll just repost it here and get back to the stacks of tests I have to grade.

George Carlin, Rest in Peace.

George Carlin
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George Carlin was my favorite comic.
He had what a virtuoso must: control.
Virtuosos take away the fear in you that they will drop the ball,
because they never do.

He would ease you into generally agreeing with his world view and then sneak in the oddest statement he could come up with, like "You ever get hit in the head with an axe?"

One time he told this joke about his grandfather retiring for the evening, telling him "I'm gonna go upstairs and f**k your grandma for a while."

His telling of the Aristocrats joke is by far the most vulgar and graphic.

He was also one of those entertainers whom you "share custody" with someone you love.
My brother Carl and I would recite Carlin lines all the time...

He was known as a "counter-cultural" comedian.
And it's a shame he's gone, because these days there's a hell of a lot of culture to be countered.

MSN.com: Photos: In Memoriam: George Carlin

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Thursday, December 27, 2007

Oh God, No!

I don't get into the issues of the Middle East much. Usually, when I do I just link to others who are more knowledgeable on the topic.

However, I've been closely following the news since they announced that the Former Prime Minister of Pakistan Benazir Bhutto was injured leaving a rally in Rawalpindi today. The worst has been announced. She died as a result of that attack. I have to admit I was scared for her when she went back to Pakistan in October.

I believe I'm moved by her death because I remember hearing that Bhutto was elected Prime Minister of Pakistan in 1988. This was significant because she was the first female to be democratically elected female to lead a post-colonial Muslim state. Now 1988 was years before people in the West realized the violent schism developing in the Muslim world.

Honestly, I was hoping it was rumor. Her wounds were severe for sure, so I was truly hoping it was people either intentionally misreporting what had happened or it was just misinformation.

However, I'm listening to Tariq Azim Khan, the Former Pakistan Info Minister, speak on CNN International and he's confirmed that she has passed away.

I'm very sad to hear it.

Rest in peace Benazir Bhutto.

More links:
Council on Foreign Relations: Pakistan After Bhutto
NY Times: Bhutto Assassinated in Attack on Rally
CNN: Benazir Bhutto killed in attack
Washington Post: Pakistan's Bhutto Killed in Attack
Time: Benazir Bhutto Killed
The Sun: Bhutto dies in bomb blast
Times Online: Benazir Bhutto assassination: the blog reaction
Pakistan Peoples Party (Bhutto's political party)
CNN: Commentary: No time for dictatorship (a recent editorial written by Bhutto)
NY Times: Musharraf’s Martial Plan (another recent editorial written by Bhutto)

Here is some video footage of Bhutto leaving the rally and also video of the confusion after the blast:

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Friday, June 8, 2007

Steve Gilliard, RIP

I've got to a take a study break or I will bash my head into a wall or get a chocolate ice cream cone. As I'm an insulin dependent diabetic BOTH are bad for me.

Anyway, during breaks I'll sometimes surf my blog favorites. I went to Rachel's Tavern to read that, unfortunately, Steven Gilliard Jr. had died at the young age of 42.

Some info on Gilliard and why his death stands out:

  1. He was blogging way back in the day which humbles me as I just started this less than a year ago. After working as a journalist, he started writing for the Daily Kos when it had 4,000 visitors a day and it now has 500,000. He eventually moved on to start his own news blog.
  2. He's one of a few >bloggers who made a living as a blogger. The News Blog, linked below, was active enough for him to have a modest income. Not bad, not bad at all.

Here is his obituary on at the New York Times: Steven Gilliard Jr., 42, Dies; Founder of Liberal Political Blog

Here is his blog if you've never been to it: The News Blog and the older one pre-Blogger beta: The News Blog (blogging ended on this one in February 2007.)

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Thursday, February 8, 2007

Damn, Anna Nicole Smith is dead!!!?

You know, I woke up this morning ready to dig into statistics. No, really, I've psyched myself into it after a class that wasn't so bad yesterday. Plus, if I don't dig in I will fail.

Anyway, I was checking my messages, clicking through MySpace and Facebook, and got the news that Anna Nicole Smith had died.

What?!!!

I mean after all of the scandals and tragedies this happens? She just had a baby!

I think this sums up why EVERYBODY is talking about this. In the blurbs on this on Technorati.com Soulful writes:

This is gonna be a hot topic because everyone wants to know WHAT happened to her. Was it drugs? Was it suicide? Was it murder? (gasp!) Only time will tell...


That's the thing. After years of fighting for her claimed share of J. Howard Marshall's estate and possibly getting almost half a billion dollars, Daniel, her son, ends up dead after Anna has a daughter, Danielynn. Of course, Danielynn's paternity is in dispute. Also, Anna was named as a defendant in the TrimSpa class action suit for false advertising, a diet drug she endorsed. Now Anna is dead!

Unfortunately, this isn't a prime time soap opera. It's a real life soap opera and everyone is tuning in to see what happens next.

However, unlike a soap opera, there probably won't be a clean ending. That's a son who died under strange circumstances. That's a baby that doesn't have a mother and now potentially stands to inherit half a billion dollars. That's a mother who is also dead under strange circumstances.

Unlike TV soap operas, Danielynn won't be all grown up next season. What we're in for is a cliff hanger that will leave us hanging for years.

It doesn't seem like she got much peace in life, so Anna Nicole, RIP.

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More links:

L.A. Times: Anna Nicole Smith timeline and Anna Nicole Smith: A look back in YouTube video
Chicago-Sun Times: Roeper: In the end, Smith wins
Google News: links on Anna's life and death
People: Anna Nicole: A Look Back at Her Life

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Sunday, January 21, 2007

The Last Word: Art Buchwald

Art Buchwald passed away last week while I was tempting fate at a ski resort in Muju (the attempt was successful and my muscles remind me of that with every move I make).

The New York Times has an interesting obituary concept: The Last Word. In the Last Word, they interview prominent personalities and give them the opportunity to narrate their own obituary.

Some might see it as morbid, however, I think it's a great idea.

I think you'll agree when you see how Art Buchwald starts off his obituary.

Here it is. From the New York Times: The Last Word: Art Buchwald

Rest in peace Mr. Buchwald.

One of my blog crushes, John Mayer also blogged about him, so here is that link too: Art Buchwald

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Saturday, January 6, 2007

Momofuku Ando, The Inventor of Instant Noodles, Dies

This sucks nuts.

I just heard that Momofuku Ando, the inventor of instant noodles, has died.

Now I'm not poor these days (I'm not rich either so put the blackmail plans away), but at the end of this semester I just had no time. I subsisted on Korean ramen, coupled with healthy drinks like fresh juice and health drinks and vitamins. I know, not the best approach to nutrition, but if you don't have time, you don't have time.

I just wanted to post a blog to say Momofuku Ando really did help a lot of students not starve. For that, I thank him. That's cool.

Rest in peace.

More links:

Inventor of instant noodles dies at 96
Momofuku Ando, Japanese inventor of instant noodles, dies at 96
Korean Instant Noodle Review at Noodleson.com

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Monday, December 25, 2006

James Brown, Rest in Peace

I was hoping to get through Christmas with posting only happy blogs. However, I just got the news that James Brown, the Godfather of Seoul, died today.

There isn't much to say, as I don't like long orations after someone has passed away. I still have trauma from my own parent's deaths and the whole lot of talk that I heard that didn't ease the pain at all. As a result, I will just keep it short.

Folks are posting comments on his MySpace page.

James Brown, Rest in Peace. You've left us all with some great music.

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Wednesday, December 6, 2006

In Memoriam: James Kim


This is a sad ending to a story I've been following from back home: James Kim found deceased

James Kim, an editor for CNET, was found dead after being missing for eleven days. His wife, Kati, and two daughters, Penelope and Sabine, had been found earlier this week on Monday.

James had left his family to search for help, but never returned. I was praying he'd be found alive too. It's never easy loosing a loved one.

My deep condolences to James' wife, daughters, family and friends.

Rest in peace James.

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More on this sad story from the San Francisco Chronicle @ SFGate:

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Wednesday, July 19, 2006

Idealistic Certainty: Waging War to Promote Democracy

Update: February 28, 2008 @ 6:26am

I made this initial post back in 2006. Today I was reading the Fishbowl NY blog. They announced that Buckley passed away.

RIP.

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I never thought I’d quote William F. Buckley, Jr. However, he has a newly released editorial named One Flag Too High that, in some parts, says exactly what needs to be said. I think that’s noteworthy because it’s coming from an old boy conservative and not from a left wing liberal.

President Bush is a victim of his idealistic certitudes. These have their place. It is hard to imagine how Great Britain would have survived the year 1942 without Churchill's apocalyptic reassurances, never mind that when they were spoken, they must have been the cause of laughter in the Nazi high command, which brought them in via radio antennas sitting on top of the Eiffel Tower. The problem has been that without Bush's high calls for global political reform, the American public would have gone along only reluctantly with the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq. And enthusiasm for these wars is now flagging because we have assured ourselves that we aren't there to choke off nuclear arms development. We are there to save the locals from the kind of government they would have if left to their own resources.

We are struggling hard, but not hard enough, to reanimate our far-flung missions abroad. The distortions are by no means exclusively the result of Republican shortsightedness. We are acting out, in Iraq and Afghanistan, ideologies that trace back to the universalization of the American creed. We pronounced, in the Declaration of Independence, ideals we conceived of as universally appealing, but which no one had the least intention of exporting beyond the boundaries of the newly independent country.

Buckley goes on to discuss many issues connected to this from Woodrow Wilson's idealistic goals of spreading the idea of liberal democracy worldwide through the League of Nations, which is the predecessor of the United Nations, to the steady rise of Islamic fundamentalism in spite of the US’s deep and expensive involvement in both Israel and Egypt.

I don’t agree with everything Buckley has to say. In particular, the comment at the end, which I didn't quote, about religion strikes me as inherently polarizing and divisive because the US is not just a Christian nation. The US is a nation built on Christian ideas as the settlers from England were Christian. However, the pull of America is freedom. Freedom is a universal idea and no group or religion has a monopoly on it. Furthermore, for a very long time America has absorbed citizens from every corner of the globe and, therefore, it has citizens culled from various cultures and religions. We are nation with not only Christians but also Catholics, Jews, Muslims, pagans, agnostics, atheists, etc. Therefore, I’m not sure how many of us would line up for a 21st century version of the Crusades.

In spite of that weak point, his initial point of Bush's steadfast crusade to export democracy is dead on. It's one thing to be an American child who is taught in an American classroom about the virtues of American-style democracy. It's another thing to be an American adult trying to force that on citizens of other nation-states. This has been one of my biggest objections to the Bush administration’s approach to international conflict. You can’t export democracy by force.

Democracy develops when people think. When you’re facing down a platoon coming into your neighborhood you’re not thinking about the democratic freedom that might follow. You’re thinking about making sure you don’t get killed or otherwise humiliated by your invader. Democracy comes and has staying power when the people themselves fight for it. From those upstart settlers in the new land rebelling against a tyrannical English king to the protesters in countries all over the world calling for democracy, the people have to want a democratic society.

I’m not saying people don’t want democracy in Iraq or Afghanistan. Only the people of those countries can show the world that democracy is what they want. It just seems that their want for democracy is lukewarm at best which leaves the US waving the flag when others want to burn it.

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